Ladies Love
3Ladies if you can’t love yourself it will be impossible to love someone else. If you don’t love yourself it’s impossible to have a happy loving relationship with a man.
Sometimes loving yourself seems hard because you don’t know what love is. Here and now you should begin to explore what love means to you. It may help by searching Google and Twitter for the term love. You may also write as many words as you can that describe love. As you begin doing these things you’ll find your mind consider the possibilities. It’s impossible to love a man if you don’t love yourself. Likewise if a man can’t love himself he can’t love you.
Sometimes you are afraid to love again because of passed pain, hurt, regret and fear. Is pain, hurt, regret and fear greater than the thoughts and feelings of love? Love has the ability to transcend time and space, but none is possible without you first loving yourself.
If you need a reason to love go look in the mirror.
As always I look forward to reading your comments below.
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I hear this statement very often, one must love themselves first before they can love others. Sometimes this can be a complicated concept. There are times people spend too much time loving themselves and it turns into “selfishness.” When I listen to Sunday morning pastors, they often say that giving and doing for others brings about alot of self love, alongwith the bonus of showing love for others.
In romantic love, I agree, one must love themselves first, which also includes knowing oneself very well in order to make the right choices in choosing the right lover. Loving oneself brings about a natural aura of happiness which will attract others.
Recently I had an extended amount of time where alot of friends and family either betrayed me or let me down. I felt their love had greatly subsided for me by their actions and reactions to things. While I thought I had self love instilled in me, this dilemma seemed to chip away at my self esteem, spirit, and attitude. I had to re-evaluate my self love and I am presently working on ways to lift myself back up.
This is an extremely great post. Also have more than a few men who have to learn to let love in. Many of us women are very patiently waiting for that one person to realize we are here in front of you and beside. They, themselves do not know love. Maybe what you have to offer and if that’s to much… They’re rearing off and this can come from friends as well. We must learn how to come together and work for what we want in a relationship.
However, I enjoy your today’s reading. I agree we all have to find love within ourselves. Thanks again Ja! Keep them coming.
Thank you for reading and commenting. Often in getting to know someone it’s a great idea to ask people how they define love, when they feel loved the most and how often do they examine loving themselves. These sorts of open conversations in a non-confronting or argumentative manner gives you greater insight into how a persons thinks about love and most importantly if what they think aligns with what you think.
As more people have these type of conversations in the initial courting process they will find it easier to select the persons that need to be in their life at a real and intimate level.