Do all men cheat, no! Do many men cheat, yes! Now that we have that out the way ask yourself are you doing everything you can to live a life of being happy, healthy and wealthy? What does this has to do with a man cheating, sometimes everything and sometimes nothing at all.
Some men are prone to cheat no, matter what the women does. I think it’s within them to cheat. How can you tell if a man is prone to cheat? Ask him about past relationships and see how he responds. Perhaps, you’ll notice some pattern of continued lying or that he cheated in other romantic experiences. This should be done early in the courting process when he may not be as on guard. Of course, this isn’t a hard and fast rule as men are different based on a number of factors not limited to spirituality, religion, social conditioning, parenting, financial status, education… Speaking of these societal concerns it’s been my observation that if a man is going to cheat none of these things really matter, he’s going to cheat. Likewise, if a man is going to be fateful, he’s going to be faithful! Isn’t that something?
The reason I ask if you’re living a life of being happy, healthy and wealthy is because it tends to mean you’re constantly seeking self-improvement while appreciating what you have in the present. When you’re living a life of being happy, healthy and wealthy, you’ll find yourself maintaining your individuality while in an exclusive relationship. This allows you to not be so wrapped up in your relationship that you stay stuck up under someone. You’ll tend to feel better about yourself more often than not and that makes you that much more appealing and sexy. Additionally, when your man knows you living your life he may be more prone to attempting to keep your happy. Attempting is the operative word, because no, man can really make you happy that has to come from within. He can excite you, but you have to be happy within yourself, you know?
Some of you have heard and subscribe to the ideal that all men cheat. If you do and accept this as truth, now what? If you accept this as truth why do you get mad when you hear of men cheating. If you accept this as actual fact what are you going to do about it? Are you going to go the way of a lesbian? Are you going to see more than one man? Are you going to act out of character? Are you going to live a life of not dating or entering into a romantic relationship? Are you just going to sleep around with many men? I’m not saying what you should or shouldn’t do here. I’m simply asking the question if you subscribe to the ideal that all men cheat, now what?
Focus on being happy, healthy and wealthy! Focus on being the best you at all times. Figure out what is good for you in this life time and do all that you can to achieve greatness. Remember that know one is perfect not even you.
Ladies, remember all the men you never called back. Remember all the men you gave the wrong number to instead of telling them you weren’t interested, despite… Remember all the men you dissed because you thought in your heart and mind he wasn’t good for you. Remember all the men you went out with who spoke of their interest in you romantically and you knew you weren’t interested, but you allowed them to invest their money, time and heart hoping they would have a shot at being your king. Yes, ladies you must own up to the law of reciprocity. This is not to say that your man should cheat on you. This is to say that not one of us are perfect and perhaps you too should appreciate your part in karma and how things come full circle.
Positive constant communication and forgiveness is paramount for any healthy romantic relationship. Always do your part to be happy, healthy and wealthy! Love yourself and you’ll be in a much better position to love someone else. This doesn’t mean that everyday will be easy and it doesn’t mean that you and/or the man will not make some serious mistakes. It does mean that you have the greatest chance to remain friends and possibly lovers. It does mean that you’ll have the ability to properly raise your children together.
If you’re a woman reading this saying, yes, but JAWAR you should tell the men… This is a sign that you have not yet matured for you’re not willing to take responsibility for you, but rather as a child you’re still saying, but what about him (them)… You’re saying if I’m going to get in trouble I want everyone to get in trouble… This isn’t about anyone being in trouble this is about you finding hotep (peace) within your own heart and learning to live a daily life of being happy, healthy and wealthy!