Sometimes two wonderful, intelligent, single and attractive people meet and through the course of courting and/or dating they find they aren’t right for each other and/or may not be right at that time for each other. It doesn’t mean either are bad people it simply means it wasn’t meant at that time.
After all the dating and courting process is meant to find out if you are indeed compatible with someone if I’m not mistaken.
If a man ever feels his temper rising to the unfortunate point of no return he should do one of the most civil and simplest things possible, WALK AWAY FROM THE IMMEDIATE SITUATION and return when he knows he may keep a level head and communicate from a point of love and positivity.
What do you think may be done to diffuse a potentially volatile situation between a man and woman?
When responding attempt not to be to complex. This is meant to present solutions to create additional problems. Keep in mind your response may be just what someone is needing at this very moment. Share in love and in the most positive manner possible.
Thank you and I look forward to reading your sincere thoughts! Maat-Hotep!
Arthurice Brundidge posed the following questions on Facebook.
“Is this true or false: We ignore the ones that adore us, adore the ones that ignore us, love the ones who hurt us, and hurt the ones that love us? If it’s true, why is it true? If it’s false for you, explain how you were able to overcome these tendencies?”
Love Tendencies Response:
It may be true if you allow it. In many instances there are signs and we decide to ignore them, causing us to be trapped in that emotional roller coaster.
We like who we like and love who we love I think in many instances it’s a matter of divine intervention. However, giving the possibilities of choice we decide to act on those feelings or not. The goal then is go where you’ll find the greatest reciprocal feeling, love, attention and so forth.
The moment you recognize you aren’t getting what you’re giving then you have a duty to yourself, the other person and the nature of the relationship to voice your concerns. After considerable time if the person doesn’t make adjustments that work for your heart, mind and spirit then it’s time to exit, stage left, as soon as possible.
I LOOK FORWARD TO READING YOUR RESPONSE!
Do all men cheat, no! Do many men cheat, yes! Now that we have that out the way ask yourself are you doing everything you can to live a life of being happy, healthy and wealthy? What does this has to do with a man cheating, sometimes everything and sometimes nothing at all.
Some men are prone to cheat no, matter what the women does. I think it’s within them to cheat. How can you tell if a man is prone to cheat? Ask him about past relationships and see how he responds. Perhaps, you’ll notice some pattern of continued lying or that he cheated in other romantic experiences. This should be done early in the courting process when he may not be as on guard. Of course, this isn’t a hard and fast rule as men are different based on a number of factors not limited to spirituality, religion, social conditioning, parenting, financial status, education… Speaking of these societal concerns it’s been my observation that if a man is going to cheat none of these things really matter, he’s going to cheat. Likewise, if a man is going to be fateful, he’s going to be faithful! Isn’t that something?
The reason I ask if you’re living a life of being happy, healthy and wealthy is because it tends to mean you’re constantly seeking self-improvement while appreciating what you have in the present. When you’re living a life of being happy, healthy and wealthy, you’ll find yourself maintaining your individuality while in an exclusive relationship. This allows you to not be so wrapped up in your relationship that you stay stuck up under someone. You’ll tend to feel better about yourself more often than not and that makes you that much more appealing and sexy. Additionally, when your man knows you living your life he may be more prone to attempting to keep your happy. Attempting is the operative word, because no, man can really make you happy that has to come from within. He can excite you, but you have to be happy within yourself, you know?
Some of you have heard and subscribe to the ideal that all men cheat. If you do and accept this as truth, now what? If you accept this as truth why do you get mad when you hear of men cheating. If you accept this as actual fact what are you going to do about it? Are you going to go the way of a lesbian? Are you going to see more than one man? Are you going to act out of character? Are you going to live a life of not dating or entering into a romantic relationship? Are you just going to sleep around with many men? I’m not saying what you should or shouldn’t do here. I’m simply asking the question if you subscribe to the ideal that all men cheat, now what?
Focus on being happy, healthy and wealthy! Focus on being the best you at all times. Figure out what is good for you in this life time and do all that you can to achieve greatness. Remember that know one is perfect not even you.
Ladies, remember all the men you never called back. Remember all the men you gave the wrong number to instead of telling them you weren’t interested, despite… Remember all the men you dissed because you thought in your heart and mind he wasn’t good for you. Remember all the men you went out with who spoke of their interest in you romantically and you knew you weren’t interested, but you allowed them to invest their money, time and heart hoping they would have a shot at being your king. Yes, ladies you must own up to the law of reciprocity. This is not to say that your man should cheat on you. This is to say that not one of us are perfect and perhaps you too should appreciate your part in karma and how things come full circle.
Positive constant communication and forgiveness is paramount for any healthy romantic relationship. Always do your part to be happy, healthy and wealthy! Love yourself and you’ll be in a much better position to love someone else. This doesn’t mean that everyday will be easy and it doesn’t mean that you and/or the man will not make some serious mistakes. It does mean that you have the greatest chance to remain friends and possibly lovers. It does mean that you’ll have the ability to properly raise your children together.
If you’re a woman reading this saying, yes, but JAWAR you should tell the men… This is a sign that you have not yet matured for you’re not willing to take responsibility for you, but rather as a child you’re still saying, but what about him (them)… You’re saying if I’m going to get in trouble I want everyone to get in trouble… This isn’t about anyone being in trouble this is about you finding hotep (peace) within your own heart and learning to live a daily life of being happy, healthy and wealthy!
Love JAWAR!
Do opposites really attract in romantic relationships? I think the opposites attract is a relative statement, especially when speaking on romantic relationships. Use your divine inspiration (spirit) to guide you when it comes to this.
It would seem wise to want someone that you share interest with (not opposite) yet also have someone that compliments you (perhaps opposite) in certain situations.
Over time you and the other person begin to gel and/or form as one more and more. I’d like to read your comments about opposites attracting.
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