Think about when you wanted something so much, you just had to have it. Did you ever whisper and/or shouted what your desires were be it in private or around others? When you pray for instance, do you always pray in silence or do you sometimes pray out loud? When you ask for help, don’t you, in fact, speak into existence what your desires are at that moment?
Since, you have evidence within your own experience of how you thought and spoke something into existence then why not apply that same universal law to finding a helpmate? When you consider a helpmate it may change the dynamics of how you become a greater asset in a romantic relationship and vice versa.
As you bear witness to the power of your thoughts and words then, yes, indeed you should speak into existence what you will. It works for both positive and negative energy, which is why it’s so important that you THINK before you think and speak.
You may apply this practical, spiritual and scientific application to your love and romantic life. It is important that just as you pray (speak) for good health you are then required to do something in order to make it happen, when speaking love into your life, you must then do something to make it happen. This doing starts with having more positive and productive thoughts towards a healthy and lasting relationship. Then you must begin to work on yourself. You know not blame everyone in your past, you would be wise to focus on what you may do to improve self, get out more, travel, keep yourself up.
There’s some old school street wisdom that says “if you stay ready, you don’t have to get ready.” This means you should always work on having the best attitude possible, be the healthiest you can at all times and keep yourself together. You don’t have to wear expense clothes, but be and look clean.
Now then speak into existence the love you desire from your future helpmate. It may come to pass sooner than later when following the steps above with believe and faith that it will work.
“THINK, PLAN, EXECUTE!” -JAWAR
Reduce some stress off your romantic relationship by picking up the slack don’t worry about it being 50/50. Do what you do with a smile and pleasing personality; it makes a positive difference.
After you’ve done this everyday for at least three weeks, ask your partner how they would rate you on a scale of 1 – 10 with 10 being the greatest as it relates to you as a husband, wife, etc. If you are given a number that is less than ten, ask your partner what can you do to bring up your number to a ten. Then do what you can to make those adjustments happen and not just for an instant, but as part of your normal routine.
Repeat this process every few months. If your relationship doesn’t improve for the positive seek professional help and if that doesn’t work you may want to look for a new partner.
SPECIAL NOTE: Your partner should eventually take note and start to follow your lead without you asking them to do so. If they don’t you may have a selfish partner on your hand and/or they think they are doing everything correct.
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“…shoes seem to be more permanent than marriage nowadays.” Tajuana Crayton
When should you purchase new shoes or cars? When should you get married? When should you leave the shoes or cars at the store? When should you stop dating someone? When should you return your shoes or cars? When should you get a divorce?
Trying on shoes in a store may sometimes be similar to test driving a car, you know for sure if the shoes don’t fit just as you know for sure if a certain car isn’t right for you when you test drive. Sometimes there’s the instant you’re not 100% sure on the shoes or the car and consider returning them after they’ve been worn.
Out of a perceived need to have the shoes and/or car immediately you may make the initial purchase figuring they’re “good enough” only to find out when you put the product to “your” real world use they really don’t fit. Unfortunately, people sometimes do this in their romantic relationships and prematurely get married thinking the person they married is “good enough.” That’s not fair to you nor the other person. Don’t marry because the person is “good enough” marry because…
My disclaimer, I’ve yet to be married.
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If a man ever feels his temper rising to the unfortunate point of no return he should do one of the most civil and simplest things possible, WALK AWAY FROM THE IMMEDIATE SITUATION and return when he knows he may keep a level head and communicate from a point of love and positivity.
What do you think may be done to diffuse a potentially volatile situation between a man and woman?
When responding attempt not to be to complex. This is meant to present solutions to create additional problems. Keep in mind your response may be just what someone is needing at this very moment. Share in love and in the most positive manner possible.
Thank you and I look forward to reading your sincere thoughts! Maat-Hotep!
Remember when falling in love was innocent and pure?
Somewhere we got consumed with the lost dreams of the generations before us and believed that you have to grow up and stop believing in simple things that make you feel alive. Don’t grow up to a point that you forget how to dream and fall in love. Some of you don’t even love yourself. SMH!