You ended up where you are today based on a set of decisions, plans and actions you’ve taken over the years.
If you’re one of those people who say things “always happen” you’re right and exact. The fortunate consequence is you’re in a position to make good, great and positive things happen. Yes, you are!
Remember the Universe rewards your subconscious and conscious thoughts, plans and actions. It doesn’t weigh in on what you consider to be positive or negative it only returns what you give out, therefor, you’re in control of your destiny. Those who don’t believe in this teaching still see the negative, for they are the one’s who will often say God is in charge of one’s destiny. While there’s truth to that statement it’s also true that God has given you the mind, tools and know how through creative imagination and burning desire to create what you will.
To further exam this consider all known technologies that man and woman has brought forth to date. Everything from the pyramids to smartphones started as a thought and executed by decree of a plan.