Yes, Men Cheat!
5Do all men cheat, no! Do many men cheat, yes! Now that we have that out the way ask yourself are you doing everything you can to live a life of being happy, healthy and wealthy? What does this has to do with a man cheating, sometimes everything and sometimes nothing at all.
Some men are prone to cheat no, matter what the women does. I think it’s within them to cheat. How can you tell if a man is prone to cheat? Ask him about past relationships and see how he responds. Perhaps, you’ll notice some pattern of continued lying or that he cheated in other romantic experiences. This should be done early in the courting process when he may not be as on guard. Of course, this isn’t a hard and fast rule as men are different based on a number of factors not limited to spirituality, religion, social conditioning, parenting, financial status, education… Speaking of these societal concerns it’s been my observation that if a man is going to cheat none of these things really matter, he’s going to cheat. Likewise, if a man is going to be fateful, he’s going to be faithful! Isn’t that something?
The reason I ask if you’re living a life of being happy, healthy and wealthy is because it tends to mean you’re constantly seeking self-improvement while appreciating what you have in the present. When you’re living a life of being happy, healthy and wealthy, you’ll find yourself maintaining your individuality while in an exclusive relationship. This allows you to not be so wrapped up in your relationship that you stay stuck up under someone. You’ll tend to feel better about yourself more often than not and that makes you that much more appealing and sexy. Additionally, when your man knows you living your life he may be more prone to attempting to keep your happy. Attempting is the operative word, because no, man can really make you happy that has to come from within. He can excite you, but you have to be happy within yourself, you know?
Some of you have heard and subscribe to the ideal that all men cheat. If you do and accept this as truth, now what? If you accept this as truth why do you get mad when you hear of men cheating. If you accept this as actual fact what are you going to do about it? Are you going to go the way of a lesbian? Are you going to see more than one man? Are you going to act out of character? Are you going to live a life of not dating or entering into a romantic relationship? Are you just going to sleep around with many men? I’m not saying what you should or shouldn’t do here. I’m simply asking the question if you subscribe to the ideal that all men cheat, now what?
Focus on being happy, healthy and wealthy! Focus on being the best you at all times. Figure out what is good for you in this life time and do all that you can to achieve greatness. Remember that know one is perfect not even you.
Ladies, remember all the men you never called back. Remember all the men you gave the wrong number to instead of telling them you weren’t interested, despite… Remember all the men you dissed because you thought in your heart and mind he wasn’t good for you. Remember all the men you went out with who spoke of their interest in you romantically and you knew you weren’t interested, but you allowed them to invest their money, time and heart hoping they would have a shot at being your king. Yes, ladies you must own up to the law of reciprocity. This is not to say that your man should cheat on you. This is to say that not one of us are perfect and perhaps you too should appreciate your part in karma and how things come full circle.
Positive constant communication and forgiveness is paramount for any healthy romantic relationship. Always do your part to be happy, healthy and wealthy! Love yourself and you’ll be in a much better position to love someone else. This doesn’t mean that everyday will be easy and it doesn’t mean that you and/or the man will not make some serious mistakes. It does mean that you have the greatest chance to remain friends and possibly lovers. It does mean that you’ll have the ability to properly raise your children together.
If you’re a woman reading this saying, yes, but JAWAR you should tell the men… This is a sign that you have not yet matured for you’re not willing to take responsibility for you, but rather as a child you’re still saying, but what about him (them)… You’re saying if I’m going to get in trouble I want everyone to get in trouble… This isn’t about anyone being in trouble this is about you finding hotep (peace) within your own heart and learning to live a daily life of being happy, healthy and wealthy!
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What a great read. Very insightful and well written. Do you think women are prone to cheating more than men? Who is more likely to get caught? Who is most likely to forgive. Also why is that when men cheat people tend to excuse it as being a playa or being young and immature but when women cheat they are labeled slut or whore? Double standard!? Thanks for this I will share with others. .
Thank you for the response Erikka.
Do you think women are prone to cheating more than men? No
Who is more likely to get caught? Men if they keep cheating. Men generally aren’t as smart as they think they are when it comes to cheating, plus they often get really comfortable when they keep going and make a mistake or three.
Who is most likely to forgive? Both and neither. It’s been my experience that it really is about the individuals, their collective relationship and the circumstances surrounding the cheating.
Also why is that when men cheat people tend to excuse it as being a playa or being young and immature but when women cheat they are labeled slut or whore?
While changing with each generation women are still looked upon as more of a purity than men. It has become accepted by more and more people that most men cheat, so it’s not so surprising as it is when a woman does it.
Why do men cheat? That is probably a question no woman could ever answer. Unless she asked one individual man that question and then the question would have to be re directed. However, if you ask me why do I think men cheat, I could give you my opinion. It’s quite simple. I think men cheat because women cheat them. They cheat ON us, we CHEAT them. Like you stated, we know when and if we’re going to call a man back, we know whether we’re going out on that date with them or not. We know that even though they’re spending their funds at the moment, spending time will not be an option. As smart as men try to be, we already know their destiny.
Sounds a little know-it-all I know but…well…it is only my opinion. You know how you guys, men, cheat on us with the woman right next door or the girl on the job? Maybe even our best friend, and then when you get caught, your answer is you didn’t mean to do it or it just happened? Hey, i believe you. I really do. I do believe that men don’t mean to cheat. I believe that they don’t set out to cheat. I mean, their brains are not made that way. Women, on the other hand, we know if we’re going to cheat, we know when we’re going to cheat, from the time we lay eyes on the culprit, victim, lucky one, whatever you want to call him. We will not cheat on you with the guy on the job, maybe the man at the corporate office but not on the job. We will not cheat on you with the guy that lives next door, maybe the guy who lives across town, out of town, but not the guy next door. We definitely would not cheat on you with your best friend, maybe your best friend’s friend or brother even, but not with your best friend.
So what does this tell you? We cheat men…and though men don’t always show their intelligence by getting caught cheating, they certainly know why they cheat. They know we cheat them. And if they don’t know, they will. Regardless what each gender is up to, the solution is to remain happy through out. How to remain happy through out? Both parties should take responsibility for their own actions. Don’t blame the other for your failures or wrong doings. No matter if you’re being CHEATED or CHEATED ON, taking full responsiblity makes for a healthy relationship, a healthy you even, if nothing else. The outcome would definitely make you happy and lets not forget the wealth. So regardless of circumstances, situations, karma, the nature of the beasts, with the all the good coming out of the bad, doesn’t it make for a happier, healthier, wealthier you?
Thank you for taking the time to respond. Right on!